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Aug
18

Summer road trip 2010

My cousin and I were very close growing up. He’s about 6 months older and grew up outside of Portland, Oregon. I spent the bulk of my childhood in coastal Texas, but our parents made a point of us spending time together. His parents, educated, creative, and progressive, made sure he grew up with his eyes wide open and since I looked up (and still do) to him quite a bit, a lot of that rubbed off on me. When I was 20 I went out to spend some time with my cousins, aunt, and uncle in Oregon. I remember him coming up behind me one morning and shutting the water off as I stood like an oaf in front of the running faucet while brushing my teeth. I never did it again. He said nothing, but his example was wonderful. We took morning road trips to waterfalls and hiked around Mount Hood. He taught me about the heartbreak of clear cutting, and of many other hidden unjust stories. As an adult, he is a talented writer and has been researching the effects of spilled jet fuel on neighboring communities for years. The clusters of cancer victims surrounding these airports are staggering.

BUT I digress…

My point is that he was my strongest inspiration in becoming an environmentalist.

Bryant & Henry

My cousin and his youngest son a few years ago

The sermon on the day of Will’s Christening was given by a guest speaker who told us “How to Raise an Environmentalist”. Her point was spot on. You raise an environmentalist not by reading scary stories about oil spills and global warming, but by teaching them to be in love with nature so that they care about what happens to it. My daughters have both spent hours with me in my canoe, on nature walks, tending to our gardens and the wild birds who visit. Autumn has camped with me in Great Smoky Mountains National Park and kayaked in Lake Superior Provincial Park on the crystal clear waters of Pancake Bay. We’ve hiked up beautiful waterfalls, rappelled along cliffs covered in ancient Ojibwe pictographs, explored the Grand Canyon and the deserts of Arizona. As Sophia and Will get older, I’ll take them on similar trips.
Mommy & Autumn

Summer road trip 2010

Around the house, we try to incorporate ways to make our impact on our surroundings a bit more kind. My friend Aaron inspired me to ditch our old gas mower in favor of a rotary-style and I can’t believe I didn’t do it sooner. Mowing our yard is now a quiet and enjoyable experience instead of a loud, smoky one. -Plus I think it does a better job.

Buh bye gas mower!

A rotary mower is just fine

I’ve been wanting to add a rain barrel for ages and finally got one put up today. This one from Fiskars was $55 at Home Depot and came with a diverter for our downspout. It’s almost the same color as our fence, so when it’s tucked into the corner we barely notice it. I attached a soaker hose to it, which snakes in and out of the hostas and hibiscus in our yard, then over to the chicken coop where I have a handy way to fill their water tank.

The new rain barrel

We have several different types of bird feeders which attract a wide range of birds through the summer as well as the winter, when we put out a heated bird bath.

We try to show our kids that nature isn’t somewhere you go on vacation, that it’s away and at home. We go exploring and then come home to take care of our tiny square of it. I’m proud of my children and their love for nature. I know they’ll always be good citizens of the earth not because they fear for it’s future, but because they are being raised to have compassion for it and enjoy the beauty it has it offer.

Summer road trip 2010

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Jul
12

Summer road trip 2010

Last year our friends Josh and Jen got engaged. They set their wedding in beautiful Golden, Colorado. Knowing we’d be making the celebrations by road trip, our plans grew and grew until we had a 3,000 mile route planned. We stayed in Highlands Ranch, CO with my brother Chris and sister-in-law Lara. Then we drove from Denver, to Golden, CO, to Deadwood, SD, to Mount Rushmore, to Crazy Horse, through Badlands National Park, across South Dakota to Okoboji, Iowa, then back home. Whew!

Of course we took lots of pics and I got lots of ideas for the house, including a new retail site featuring loads of cool goodies for the home. I’ll have product to list after the Living and Giving show in a couple weeks at the Merchandise Mart. Stay tuned! If you want to get updates on the site launch, click here and fill out the form. There will be discount codes for preview sales before our official kickoff.

The photo collection from our trip is here.

Happy Summer y’all!

Jul
01

Baby Will, 10 months

Baby Will, 10 months

Baby Will, 10 months

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Jun
27

road trip activities for kids

We’re planning a Great American Road Trip this summer and I’ve been trying to come up with good road trip activities for the kids. Our route includes visits to Denver (to see my brother and sister-in-law) and Golden, Colorado (where our friends Jen and Josh are getting married), then up to Rapid City and Deadwood, South Dakota, crossing the state to Mitchell and on down to Lake Okoboji, Iowa. We’ll visit Arnold’s Park, where my brothers and I took our first roller coaster ride as kids. The park was founded in the early 1900′s and still keeps much of it’s original charm. I haven’t been back and years and am really looking forward to sharing it with my little family.

I’m already excited. The voyage itself will provide Dave and I with plenty of amusement, but for a nearly 9 year old girl and 10 month old boy in the back seat, not so much. As much as I would love to think that Sophia will be watching out the window, moved by the beauty of the Rocky Mountains and the Badlands, it’s far more likely that her nose will be buried in a DS. So I’m cooking up a list of activities to keep her engaged in our trip and create some memories to savor at the same time.

Activitiy 1:
Each state has a rest stop just across the border which usually provides free maps of the state. Sophia’s job will be to procure one from each border we cross. My brothers and I loved hoarding maps on road trips when we were kids.

Activity 2:
I’ve packed a plastic shoebox-sized bin with a pack of colored pencils, a hole punch, and a metal ring that snaps closed. At each place we stop, Sophia will get to pick out a postcard on which she can write a note to herself describing what we were doing there. We’ll punch a hole in the top corner of the postcard, loop it onto the metal ring, then she can have a flip scrapbook of her travels complete with photos and notes.

Activity 3:
We have a cargo bin for the top of the car, very Family Truckster-style. It’s old and ugly and is in need of some bumper stickers. So we’ll make it a rule to get a tourist sticker from each of our stops.

Activity 4:
Get a small map of the US, about place mat-size and a pack of dot stickers. Each time you see a license plate from a new state, put the sticker on that state and write a little note about where you were when you saw it.

Activity 5:
Bring a little home with you. We used to keep small baby food jars and scoop up a bit of dirt or sand from every place we visited. My father still has a wall of beach sand jars in his home, each labeled from different trips. Talk about a budget-friendly souvenir!

Then there is the usual assortment of coloring and activity books, cameras, and road trip bingo.

Traveling easier & on a budget:
Most of our overnight stays will probably be in KOA cabins ($40-$60 a night), which are almost always clean. You do have to bring your own linens, which I prefer anyway. Plus the campgrounds usually have lots of family activities available.

For most meals, we’ll pack a classic green Coleman steel belted cooler (a wedding present from our friend Dennis) in the back of the Subaru for drinks and perishables, and some small bins for items like bread, peanut butter, nuts, dried fruit, jerky, and other snacks. I’ve packed up a picnic blanket, melamine plates, cups, and flatware so we can wash up in the rest stops and campgrounds without leaving a trail of disposables behind us.

The Travel Tote:
Whenever we take a road trip, short or long, I keep a large tote (the LL Bean Boat Tote is my favorite) stocked up and within arm’s reach. It’s stocked with wipes, sunscreen, a first aid kit, bug spray, a roll of paper towels, books, magazines, a travel blanket,  maps, itineraries, and a camera. Just general stuff that I don’t want to guess what suitcase it got buried in or know I’ll want to access quickly.

I pack a separate tote for the kids, which goes on the floor in the back seat area. It’s stocked with a pad of paper, crayons, books, DVDs, toys, snacks, and their own camera, an old digital one that I’ve since upgraded. Sophia is old enough to handle it responsibly and I love seeing photos from her point of view. If you don’t have a spare, Ilford makes a really cool black and white disposable camera that holds C41 film so it can be processed at any drugstore photo counter.

General Checklist:
Up-to-date insurance cards (auto and medical)
First aid kit & pain reliever (Advil, etc.)
Wipes (baby and antibacterial for funky gas station bathrooms)
Trash bags
Cooler
Picnic blanket
Bug spray
Sunscreen
Beach towels
Camera
Maps
Pillows
Linens (if needed)
Baby supplies (pack & play, extra changes of clothes, diapers, food, juice, bottles…and strong sunscreen for that sweet new baby skin!)

Anyone have any other good suggestions for keeping kids occupied on a road trip or making the voyage more budget-friendly? I’d love it if you’d leave them in the comments!

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Jun
25

My brother Jamie and his fiance, Emily, were passing through town from Boston en route to Iowa. We got to meet up with them for dinner, a quick visit, but we are looking forward to more leisurely quality time with them later this summer. Baby Will certainly enjoyed meeting them!

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May
10

My Mother's Day present.

An antique cast iron weather vane for the backyard of the new house. Mama bird with her 3 babies. That’s me! :)

I love it. Thank you Fifi, Will, and Dave!

May
08
My sweet 8 month old boy

8 month old baby Will and Dave

Especially to all the women and mothers who are part of my family’s life. Much love to you all.

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Apr
12

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We spent this past weekend in Madison. I was up there shooting a wedding for a friend of the family and caught this pic of my sweeties on the way out the door. Deep sigh of content. I love them so much.

Mar
28

Will's IVYesterday afternoon, out of nowhere, Will started getting sick about every 10 minutes. We called the doctor, who told us to bring him into immediate care. —Our hospital has a stop between standard doctor visit and emergency room. He was getting dehydrated really fast, so we had to do an IV drip to get him back up to normal levels. It was so sad holding him while they put that thing into his poor little hand. Afterward, he rested his head down on my chest and stayed like that for the next couple of hours. They had some guesses about what was causing it, but by the middle of the night, Sophia was getting sick every 10-15 minutes as well, so I’m using my brilliant powers of deduction to assume it’s a nasty stomach bug.

He’s back home now, feeling better, but we’re still giving him Pedialyte by the teaspoon every few minutes to take it easy on his tummy. Poor little monkey.

So cut to 10am the next morning and I have a sick baby, daughter, and husband. They’ve all developed some kind of super nasty stomach illness and are curled up on various couches and beds around the house looking at TVs with blank stares. No fun at all. :(

Anyone have a spare Hazmat suit?

Update: Scratch the order for the Hazmat suit. Too late. Save yourselves.

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Mar
24

8 year old Sophia needed an upgrade in her space, so we started before her little brother was born. With all the hubbub over the baby, we didn’t want her feeling left out and figured it was time to step up from the decor she had known since she was 2.

We painted the walls, installed a closet organizer, new lighting, tore up the carpet to expose beautiful hardwood floors, added a new bed and all sorts of fun touches. My favorite is the tent over the bed that can be pulled closed for imagination time or hiding out with the girls during sleepovers.

She loves it and is always inviting us to watch movies and eat dinner up there as a family, picnic style. :)